The chastity cage, a key accessory for male abstinence, is a must-have for anyone interested in domination games with their partner. In this comprehensive guide, we’ll explain how to choose the perfect chastity cage for you.
Imprisoning male intimacy is a popular BDSM game enjoyed by many around the world. However, not all cages are suitable for every profile or gender.
If you’re new to chastity, the cage you choose will be different compared to if you’ve been practicing abstinence for years.

How to Choose Your Chastity Cage

If you enjoy giving control of your sex life to your partner and are intrigued by dominant/submissive relationships, you’re likely interested in BDSM domination games, particularly controlled male chastity.
The penis cage is the device to have, but you need to find the model that suits you best. Cages are available in various models.
If you’re looking to explore various chastity cage options, you can check out this selection of chastity cages on Mytoyamz.

1. The Different Cages

Chastity cages are made from different materials, including:

  • Metal
  • Silicone
  • Plastic
  • Leather

Metal Cages

Metal cages are the most popular and suitable for long-term wear. Made of stainless steel, they are hygienic, easy to clean, and sturdy. Metal cages are recommended for experienced BDSM enthusiasts.

Plastic Cages

Plastic cages are comfortable and flexible. They are suitable for beginners and athletes. These cages need to be removed regularly due to lack of ventilation.

Silicone Cages

Silicone cages are discreet, flexible, and ideal for newcomers to BDSM. They are comfortable and hypoallergenic, perfect for those seeking discretion.

Leather Cages

Leather cages are for BDSM sessions, made of imitation leather and metal. They offer an aesthetic appeal and are recommended for use during sexual activity.
Choose the cage that suits your preferences and experience level for the best BDSM experience.

2. The Different Types of Rings

There are two kinds of “cockring”:

  • Fixed rings
  • Openable rings

Your level of experience doesn’t matter for this criterion. Your preferences for the placement of the chastity cage will influence your choice of ring type.

Fixed Rings

Fixed rings cannot be opened and must be put on before the “tube” of the cage. They are preferred by many due to limiting the risk of pinching.
However, for those with larger penises or testicles, the fixed ring may not be recommended.

Openable Rings

Rings with openings can be easily put in place. They should be installed after inserting the penis into the structure.
While easy to install, be cautious to avoid pinching the skin when closing them.

3. The Different Closures

Two types of closures are to be distinguished:

  • The padlock
  • The lock

The lock closure for male abstinence cages with padlocks is more exciting and symbolic. The padlock is safer and quicker to put on, but has its limitations.
The lock is more discreet and suitable for situations where visibility is a concern.

4. Dimensions

Choosing the right size is crucial. A chastity cage must accurately fit your dimensions. Measurement is essential.
Measurements to take:

  • Circumference
  • Length

Tip: Take measurements after a hot bath or shower for accuracy.

Circumference Calculation

Measure your penis and scrotum’s circumference, divide the result by Pi (3.14) to obtain the diameter and determine the ring size you need.
Example of ring size according to penis circumference:

  • 110-118mm circumference: 36mm ring size
  • Circumference from 132 to 148: 45mm ring size
  • 164-180mm circumference: 55mm ring size

If you are between 2 sizes, start with the larger ring before changing to a narrower cock ring.

Length Calculation

Calculating the length to know the size of the tube you need is relatively simple.

The tube of the chastity cage must be perfectly adjusted to the length of your penis. To get the perfect length, the total length of your cage (ring + tube) should be equal to the length of your flaccid penis.

If your cage is too small, you may get irritated. If your cage is too big, you may experience penile pain and difficulty urinating straight.


Because yes… The most classic models only include a simple cage in which you will imprison your penis. But the creators of chastity cages are just as perverted in spirit as their users.

A large number of chastity cages push the vice of submission, domination and pleasure through frustration even further with ever harder models.

For those who want to spice up their abstinence, it is possible to find cock cages with:

  • an anal plug
  • a urethra plug
  • spikes or screws
  • an electrical system
  • Prince Albert piercing

Cages with Anal Plug

Before talking about male chastity cages with urethral plug, let’s start with cages with anal plug.

You are aware that, like women, men have a “G” point called the “P” point. This point is located at the level of the prostate and, to stimulate it, the anal plug is the ideal sex toy.

Abstinence cages with a built-in anal sex toy allow you to combine the excitement linked to the stimulation of the P-spot with the frustration linked to the impossibility of being able to get a hard-on or masturbate.

These cages are recommended if:

  • you are looking for new sensations
  • you want to make your BDSM experience even more frustrating
  • you already practice sexual relations including orgasm through the prostate

Cages with Urethral Plug

The urethra plug is certainly one of the most exciting BDSM accessories. It is all the more so when it is associated with a game of abstinence.

The urethral plug is, as its name suggests, a mini sex toy that takes the form of a rod and is inserted into the urethra (the slit through which your urine comes out). Also called penis plug, this accessory allows you to practice “sodurethra” (association of “sodomy” and urethra) at the same time as chastity.

On the agenda: maximum pleasure and sensations that are both extreme and intense.

Urethral cages include a rod screwed onto the end of the tube that can be removed if needed.

There are 2 types of probes:

  • Flexible probes
  • Rigid probes

Rigid probes (made of metal) guarantee more sensations than flexible ones. Anyway, if you decide to buy a urethral chastity cage, remember to clean and disinfect your equipment regularly.

Cages with Spikes or Screws

Be warned: these cages are primarily intended for submissives and confirmed sadomasochists who fully accept the pain. A chastity cage with spikes or screws compresses the penis and provides constant discomfort that is difficult to bear for a novice.

Electric Cages

These are, by far, the most hardcore sex toys. They are not made for all followers of submission and domination. Electric chastity cages are intended for men looking for real strong and painful sensations.

The operation of the electric cage or “e-stim”, “electrosex” or even “electrostim” is simple. These accessories are sold with a box which, once connected, sends electric shocks to the cage.

The objective is just as simple as the operation: to punish and submit the dominated man to the extreme.

Lovers of immoderate suffering, take the time to take an interest in these types of cages.

Cages with Prince Albert Piercing

These are slightly less common BDSM devices than other cages. To wear this kind of abstinence cage, the man must be pierced beforehand in order to be able to put on his “PA Lock” and leave no escape for his penis.

Choosing the Right Cage

You now have all the keys in hand to imprison your sex correctly and to fully enjoy male chastity.

If you are not yet sure about the choice of your cage, you will find below recommendations according to your profile.

is a multimedia reporter for The TRiiBE.